Pablo and Bibi have been together for a year.
How did you meet?
We met online on Match.com, and we just made a year on June 23rd of this year. Before I met him I was going through a very difficult time in my life. I was depressed most of the time, but I kept myself busy by being a Dance Mom at my daughters dance studio. While on match I interacted with a lot men online, and before my date with Pablo I had gone on 2 dates (waste of time). Right before deactivating my account he messages me, we exchanged numbers and a couple days later we had our first date. He kissed me on our first date, and with that first kiss I knew he was a keeper.13 months later my life has changed for the better.
Tell me a little bit about your partner and what made you decide that they were a keeper?
He is the male version of me….outgoing, funny, trustworthy, very social and we have a lot of things in common. He’s the most amazing person I have ever met; he respects me and treats me like his queen. I thank god for him every day. He’s a great father to his son, and my daughters adore him. He showed me what it’s like to love again and be happy. I can honestly say that now I know what it is to be in a normal relationship.
Were there any obstacles/hurdles in the way of your relationship and if so, how did you overcome them?
So far we have not any obstacles or hurdles…thank God!
What are your future goals for you and your partner?
We do discuss about moving in together within the next year or 2, but at the same time I would like some sort of commitment. Even though we both had failed marriages, I wouldn’t mind giving it another shot.
What do you think it takes to make a relationship work?
Communication and trust…..I’m glad that I’m able to talk to Pablo about anything and have long conversations. If there is something that’s bothering me, I can talk to him about whether it is about us, my kids, finances etc. He’s always there to listen to me and give me advice. Also, I’m glad that he’s able to trust me and I can trust him. He works 2 jobs, spends a lot of time with his son and in between spends times with me. Pablo is not the type that will be partying up in the club every weekend with the fellas. Once in a blue moon he will go to a bar and hang with the fellas, but I let him have his space. Why, because I trust him. While he’s out I’m not going to be texting or calling him every minute and showing him that I’m insecure. Pablo has given me so much love this year, and I feel so lucky and blessed to have him in my life. Pablo is my best friend, my rock and my every thing. I look forward to the future and making more great memories with him.
What are your future goals for you and your partner?
We do discuss about moving in together within the next year or 2, but at the same time I would like some sort of commitment. Even though we both had failed marriages, I wouldn’t mind giving it another shot.
What do you think it takes to make a relationship work?
Communication and trust…..I’m glad that I’m able to talk to Pablo about anything and have long conversations. If there is something that’s bothering me, I can talk to him about whether it is about us, my kids, finances etc. He’s always there to listen to me and give me advice. Also, I’m glad that he’s able to trust me and I can trust him. He works 2 jobs, spends a lot of time with his son and in between spends times with me. Pablo is not the type that will be partying up in the club every weekend with the fellas. Once in a blue moon he will go to a bar and hang with the fellas, but I let him have his space. Why, because I trust him. While he’s out I’m not going to be texting or calling him every minute and showing him that I’m insecure. Pablo has given me so much love this year, and I feel so lucky and blessed to have him in my life. Pablo is my best friend, my rock and my every thing. I look forward to the future and making more great memories with him.
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